People respond to the predominate picture.  Only you can change your picture.  If the new picture isn’t stronger than the previous one, it won’t replace the negativity associated with the first one.

We have an invitation to go on this incredible journey with Jesus to bear fruit.  On this journey, we will more than likely experience opposition.  If you don't think that you can continue the journey, then determine to change your mindset. You can. You can  set the picture straight. in your mind according to what the Word of God says.